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Brooke sent the following
sign: Sagittarius -
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
Dear Pink,
I have had sexual feelings for women. I thought it was probably because I envied them. Is there any advice you can give me to figure out if it might be more than just envy.

Brooke darling,
Think about what exactly mean when you call it envy. Do you think all other women are better than you? The polar opposite of envy is inspiration. Think about that for a bit and realize that sexual feelings should not be about negative emotional responses but rather positive ones. Try not to judge yourself and allow yourself a bit more introspection and time.

Love, Pink

 


 

BISHAUNIQUE sent the following:
sign: Sagittarius
age: 65+up
sex: Female

comments:
DEAR S.G.,
I HAVE BEEN SINGLE NOW FOR OVER THREE YEARS. ALTHOUGH I AM HAPPIER THAN MOST PEOPLE I KNOW, I STILL MISS SEX. I DO MEAN SEX, NOT COMPANIONSHIP, AS I HAVE MANY CLOSE FRIENDS.
DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS? I HAVE A HARD TIME MEETING MEN BECAUSE I'M VERY ATTRACTED TO 20-SOMETHING "HOTTIES", AS MY GRANDCHILDREN SAY.

PLEASE DON'T TELL ME TO DATE MEN MY OWN AGE BECAUSE LETS FACE IT, THEY'RE NOT "ALL THAT".
THANKS.
DUTCH GRANNY WITH TOO MUCH SOUL!

Go on DUTCH GRANNY.
If those 20 something HOTTIES will have you, take them and show them a thing or two.

Blessings, Pink

 


 

KC sent the following
sign:  -
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
Hi, I have a dilemma. I was with a girl for almost 3 years (starting in H.S., into my college). Our breakup was a mutual decision, right before she went away for college. Now she has someone else, and tells me she's happy, and says she's happy for me also (doing well). We talk fairly often, and I still feel very close to her, and I also still love her very much. I would never think of hurting her relationship with her new b/f, and I know she would never cheat on him. But I have the feeling that I'll never be able to love anyone else that way, and so never marry and be happy without her. Could I have some guidance, please?
confused, Thanks.

YO KC:
Here is my guidance. Stop thinking for other people. Figure out your own life and LIVE IT. Of course you will never love anyone else THAT WAY! Honey there are many other ways, that you have yet to discover. HAVE FAITH.

Love, Pink

 


Rachel K. sent the following
sign: Gemini
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
Dear Sex Goddess,
I just recently got a horse and my boyfriend doesn't like it. He says
that I spend too much time with him. Now I love him very much, but I love my horse too. Please tell me if there is anything I can do?


Rachel,
Tell your boyfriend to stop being an insecure ASS!

Love, Pink

 


 

Cindy sent the following
sign: Sagittarius
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
Ok, I just started seeing this guy and he's a sweet heart. He's 35 and I'm 20. Even though its going good with us, we both have children. Mine is 8 months and his are close to being teens. I know my baby will love him, but I'm worried that his kids may not take to their dad being with me, like I'm invading their lives or something? Should I be worried about this and should I tell him what I'm worried about? I'm supposed to meet his kids in a couple of weeks.
*worried*
Thanks.

 

Dear Cindy,
You cannot know how your boyfriends children will feel about you, until you do meet them. Until then, it would be far less worrisome and a great deal more productive to assume that they will love you as everyone should. So give up the worries, they are not worth it.

Life always gives you just what you expect. Think positive and expect the best. You deserve it.

Love, Pink

 


 

Nick sent the following
sign: Leo
age: Under 18
sex: Male

comments:
Dear sex goddess,
I am 16 years old and I have a baby girl. The girl I had her with is one year older than me and I was truly in love with her. During her pregnancy, she broke up with me saying we would be better off as friends but I know she still loves me. Soon she will be off to college and I won't be able to see her as much as I would if she stayed. I really want her to be a part of my life. How do I win her back? I do know how stupid that sounds but we are basically best friends now and I know she still loves me.

yours sincerely,
-nick-

Dear Nick,
If you really do love her, the only way to "win her back" is to respect her wishes and to be TRULY supportive of her. She should appreciate that. If she really does love you, she will come back on her very own.

Luck, Pink

 


 

Clinton P. sent the following
sign: Virgo
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
I Love my girlfriend alot and we've been together for two years but I'm not completely happy. It seem as if as long as we do what she wants to do, then we won't fight, but if I want to do something especially if it doesn't involve her, then its on. She won't quit unless I give in or if I leave. Really, all I want to do is hang out with my friends and she thinks they're all scum because they're all single and do crazy things, but I still like to hang out and do some things with them. Like I said, only if I walk out am I able to do things with my friends. I really hate it and sometimes want to break up but I love her and she's always there even when my friends aren't... always. I really enjoy hangin out with my friends and I really love her.
One more thing: when we fight for a day or two, she goes off and does wild stuff to piss me off.

Dear Clinton:
You need to convey to your girlfriend the importance of TRUST. It sounds to me that she is quite insecure about either herself, you or your friends. Have a heart to heart with her and hopefully she will understand that just because you want to hang out with your buds, does not mean that she is less important. Everyone needs and DESERVES their space. Threats and other such methods are not conducive to a relationship that lasts. If she doesn't get it, eventually you are certain to tire of her tantrums and hook up with someone else who does allow you to be yourself.

Luck, Pink

 


 

Launce sent the following
sign: Sagittarius
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
Well, I've been seriously dating my girlfriend for about 5 months now....we met while she was in the Mid-West, but she lives in NY...What to do?...We'll, we've decided to try living together which entails me moving to New York....True, since there is basically nothing here for me in Indiana, it seems like a good idea in theory. I guess I'm just worried we aren't ready for such a drastic life change. I don't want to put too much pressure on her to be there for me. I also don't want her to expect me to be entirely dependent on her when I make the move...I'm a big boy, ya know...Anyway, I'd be most grateful for some insight.
Thanks, Lancelot

Dear Lance,
Find a job in NYC first, before you make the move. It is an incredible city, and I am sure the move would be good for you. Just find yourself a niche, so that you AREN'T dependent on her, even if she doesn't mind. She'll have greater respect for you that way.

Luck, Pink

 


 

So Confused sent the following
sign: Gemini
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
Me and my ex-B/F have been broken up for a while, but since we have 2 classes together now, he can't seem to take his eyes off me. In Drama the other day, I was in a short dress for a part I was playing, and he told his friend when he looked at me, he was more turned on than he has ever been in his life! He has a new G/F and they seem to be in love, but he seems to still be attracted to me. I still do like him too, but I don't want to interfere in his relationship. What should I do?

Dear Miss SO Confused:
Forget him.
That's all. If he really is attracted to you, why shouldn't he be... ANYWAY! BUT...He is otherwise involved, and unless he breaks up with her, he ain't worth it.

Dump the confusion and adopt some confidence!

Love, Pink

 


 

Sagar sent the following
sign: Virgo
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
I love a girl desperately but I have no guts to talk to her and propose marriage. I'm afraid because if I do, she will refuse me. Pls. suggest.

Dear Sagar,
No guts, no GLORY! You haven't failed unless you fail to TRY! So what if she refuses you. Even if you think that the possibility of her accepting your proposal is a million in one, If you really love her desperately, there should be not a single doubt in your mind!!!

ASK HER!

Love and much luck, Pink

 


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